Letters to the Editor: Domestic Violence Unit a step in the right direction

Editor,

One of the most insidious cancers in our society is the pervasive control wielded by individuals who use fear to gain an advantage. Domestic Violence, sadly, is not a gender-specific issue. Many women and men, due to societal pressures and fear of losing their perceived status, have been hesitant to report instances of Domestic Violence. Yet, their bravery in stepping forward, despite the fear and shame that often accompany such experiences, is a testament to the deep-seated impact of Domestic Violence. Their courage deserves our empathy and support.

The journey of a victim of Domestic Violence often begins with a visit to the police station to report the harrowing incident. In the past, the police did not give the reports the attention that the sensitivity and seriousness of these reports deserve.

However, the progressive Commissioner of Police’s decision to establish a New Domestic Violence Unit dedicated to providing immediate support and protection to victims is a commendable step forward. This proactive approach acknowledges the severity of Domestic Violence and the need for dedicated support, a one-stop shop.

In his wisdom, the Commissioner saw fit to include The Women’s Crisis Centre and other N.G.O.s to combine their efforts toward tackling this vexing issue. Too many families are negatively affected in one way or another. Unfortunately, the domino effect is that we all suffer when the experiences cause some children to retaliate, wreaking havoc on society as adults.

The decision to be an advocate for stamping out the most hideous crime against women and men is a noble effort. Fortunately, The Royal Bahamas Police Force had Assistant Superintendent of Police Kendra Wallace-Whyms in its ranks.

A.S.P. Whyms has taken on the mission of supporting victims of domestic violence with a personal dedication that goes beyond the call of duty. She invests her time, effort, and influence to provide comfort and shelter to distressed families. She demonstrates a genuinely inspiring commitment—her supportive team of carefully selected officers who go beyond the call to achieve a positive result.

Whyms’ personality and spirit toward her work are more than just a job; it’s a mission. Her expertise, extensive experience working in C.I.D., and qualifications as a trained Social Worker make her among the few equipped for the task.

Trained officers are good, but Whyms’ sterling passion for cleaning up these messy incidents makes a difference. We can all appreciate and support their dedication to helping victims and their families, regardless of gender.

The focus must be on repairing the emotionally scarred family, including the mother, children, and even men who experience Domestic Violence. Regardless of gender, the emotional toll of these incidents is significant, and our understanding and support are crucial. Let’s show compassion and understanding to all victims of domestic violence.

Domestic Violence of all kinds is a cancer that we must all come together to eradicate. This is not a battle for a few, but a collective responsibility. Those who condone it in any form contribute to keeping the monster alive. Let’s all take a stand against domestic violence.