Dear Editor,
As Father’s Day approaches this Sunday, I write with both gratitude and concern. I am grateful for the fathers who lead their homes with love, discipline, and spiritual guidance—and concerned for those fathers who have neglected their sacred role in their children’s lives. This is not a message of condemnation but one of truth, urgency, and a call to action.
A father’s presence is more than physical; it is spiritual, emotional, and psychological. The Bible reminds us in Proverbs 22:6, “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” A godly father is not perfect, but he seeks God’s wisdom daily to guide his family, protect their path, and model integrity.
But what happens when a father is absent?
When a father chooses not to show up—emotionally, mentally, or physically—it leaves a wound that doesn’t easily heal. A child grows up constantly questioning their worth, silently battling feelings of abandonment, and struggling to fill a void only a father’s love and presence can fill. This damage doesn’t fade with time; it follows them into adulthood, shaping relationships, self-esteem, and the way they see the world. Your silence speaks—and it speaks loudly.
Additionally, the Bible warns of such abandonment in Ephesians 6:4, where fathers are charged to “bring their children up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.” The absence of this leadership can lead to the very unraveling of the moral fabric in our homes, communities, and society at large.
To the devoted fathers, father figures, and mentors—we thank you. Your presence matters. Your sacrifices matter. Your prayers, discipline, and unwavering support are shaping generations. Continue to lead with strength and humility.
To those who have been absent, it is not too late. Let this Father’s Day be your turning point. Pick up the phone. Write the letter. Send the message. Go knock on the door. Rebuild what was broken. Your child still needs you. Even a wounded heart can heal when love is finally shown.
This Father’s Day, I challenge every man who bears the title “father” to rise. Do not let this day pass without making peace, planting seeds, or restoring a relationship. Our children—and our future—depend on it.
And to my father, I am especially thankful to God for blessing me with a father of unwavering faith, quiet wisdom, and unshakable strength. I love you deeply and appreciate all that you are. Your example continues to live in me, guiding my steps and shaping my heart. Here’s to you, Daddy—with gratitude, honor, and love.
Happy Father’s Day to all who have stood in the gap. Your legacy is priceless.
With respect and purpose,
A Daddy’s Girl
